A Nigerian lady, Ola, has mentioned she’s going to by no means divorce her dishonest husband except he disrespectfully brings one other lady into their house.
It will likely be recalled that veteran Nollywood actor, Pete Edochie, had suggested Nigerian girls in opposition to divorcing their husbands over infidelity however to as a substitute place packs of condoms of their luggage
In accordance with the actor, when a dishonest man sees the condom his spouse positioned in his bag, he’ll know she has his curiosity at coronary heart and may have a rethink each time he desires to go have interaction in extramarital affairs.
“For those who suppose your husband leaves the home and says he is occurring a tour and he’s going to have an affair exterior, put a packet of condom in his bag. When he sees it, psychologically, he’s going to suppose this lady has my curiosity at coronary heart. Whether it is his intention to stray, he’ll pull himself collectively.” he mentioned. HERE
Ms Ola supported Edochie’s recommendation, saying that she is not going to divorce her husband due to extramarital affairs however will as a substitute provide him with condoms to guard herself from STDs.
“Pete Edochie is correct. I ‘m not leaving my house due to one other lady. I’ll solely divorce my husband if he disrespectfully brings her house. I’ve mentioned this severally, no method! Even the condom, I’ll provide him with it cuz I want to guard myself not directly too” she wrote.
Ola additional mentioned most girls will not depart their husbands over infidelity due to the stigma connected to divorce.
“The sooner we realise that marriage is just not all rosy the higher for us. Could we by no means find yourself with a associate (he/she) who deliver disgrace to us. African setting will not even allow you to depart your property cuz he cheated. So it isn’t simple to stroll away.”
“However as Africans we’re used to pretending. Let’s not deny the truth that many married girls are conscious that their husbands are dishonest. Why are they nonetheless in tha marriage. All of us make divorce appear simple.”