Treasured Chikwendu has responded to the allegations her estranged husband Femi Fani-Kayode (FFK) made in opposition to her.
Days in the past, Media Advisor to former Minister of Aviation, Femi Fani-Kayode, Honourable Oladimeji Olaiya, launched a press release accusing Treasured Chikwendu of making an attempt to kill FFK and their four sons.
The mum-of-four has now responded and he or she stated she’s doing this for the sake of her sons.
She addressed every allegation made in opposition to her within the assertion by her estranged husband’s Media Advisor.
The previous magnificence queen denied being a golddigger by narrating how she was already unbiased and profitable earlier than assembly FFK.
She additionally identified that FFK’s accounts had been frozen on the time she met him.
She stated their relationship began together with her “caring and having a deep concern for him whereas he was underneath EFCC investigation”. She added that it “later transited right into a supposed romantic relationship that turned oppressive, obsessive, and abuse.”
She added that her marriage to him was “based mostly on false pretence as he lied that he had divorced his final spouse, Regina.”
She additionally alleged that he was abusive and beat her up when she was pregnant with their first son and the triplets. She alleged he would punch her abdomen and get his bodyguards to carry her down each time she resisted.
She additionally alleged that with the assistance of cops, FFK locked her up behind the counter a number of instances and as soon as instructed CSP Aisha Yesufu to handcuff her and strip her bare in entrance of their home employees.
She additionally claimed that he locked up her members of the family within the police station too each time they tried to intervene when he is beating her up.
On the allegations of infidelity, Treasured stated she could not have as a result of she “walked round with not less than 4 cops and three bodyguards” and everybody prevented her due to it.
She insisted she by no means had any extramarital affair. She added that FFK “perceived each schoolmate, ex, cousin, or male voice as a possible lover over the telephone.”
She additionally spoke about what lastly led to the breakdown of their marriage.
Learn her full assertion beneath.
OFFICIAL STATEMENT ADDRESSING ALLEGATIONS SURROUNDING MY JUST ENDED MARRIAGE TO FEMI FANI-KAYODE (FFK).
My title is Treasured Chikwedu, a graduate of the College of Calabar, Miss Untied Nation 2014, and a Nollywood actress since 2007. Naturally, I preserve a relaxed disposition when in disaster, being goal-oriented and never a talker of any kind. However I’m now pressured to answer these allegations for my kids, well-being, and profession path.
As a scholar, I lived a reasonably comfy college life with self-sustaining companies. Upon commencement, I obtained a job in a building firm. I purchased my first automotive as an undergraduate and have chains of companies earlier than assembly FFK. I used to be additionally into modelling and had a number of endorsements as an Worldwide magnificence queen, along with my job; these are verifiable information.
My Monetary Standing Earlier than Marriage
I’m from a middle-class house the place my Dad offers for all my wants. Furthermore, I’ve all the time been industrious and a supplier slightly than a collector. Earlier than I met FFK, I labored in a quarry/building firm in Calabar and lived a particularly comfy life. I might afford automobiles inside my means, caring for my dad and mom and siblings. I constructed my dad and mom a home in Nanka, my hometown, in 2012 earlier than heading over to Kingston to win the Miss United Nations title in 2014
I’m tagged a gold-digger attributable to false impression, ignorance and a few folks counting on intentionally planted falsehood. It’s unlucky that after I met Femi in 2014, he already had his financial institution accounts frozen by the EFCC, they usually stay frozen to this point. He opened one other checking account when he joined the Goodluck Jonathan marketing campaign group in 2015. The current authorities initiated an investigation based mostly on the marketing campaign funds supply. And his marketing campaign account was frozen once more. Frequent sense can present that he could have been financially constrained whereas I used to be with him.
My relationship with Femi on the time we met was extra of me caring and having a deep concern for him whereas he was UNDER EFCC PROSECUTION. Nevertheless, it later transited right into a supposed romantic relationship that turned oppressive, obsessive and abusive. Femi changed into a management freak that attempted to manage even the very breath that I took.
Femi posed as a lonely and deserted man who gave his all to his family members however was left alone in his second of want (EFCC trial). He spoke bitterly of a Regina, who he stated fled to her nation, abandoning him when President Yar’Adua’s authorities ordered the EFCC to research him for cash laundering. The courtroom additionally talked about her title.
Marriage Underneath False Pretence
I wish to state clearly that my marriage to FFK was based mostly on false pretence as he lied that he had divorced his final spouse, Regina. I discovered his marriage certificates in 2016 in the course of the EFCC raid at our then house. Once I confronted him about this, he stated that he’s about beginning Regina’s divorce course of and added that he had not seen her within the final ten years. He additional defined that he by no means fancied her and that their relationship was that of a mom and son sort. On the time I left, he was technically married to her former spouse.
On Regina’s declare that she gave her consent for me to be married to FFK, it is a ridiculous and blatant lie. How might she have permitted a relationship she solely discovered about by means of social media? This occasion occurred exactly on FFK’s birthday when he intentionally leaked my being pregnant pictures after one other argument between us and I needed to go away the home. He did that to point out the world that I used to be pregnant along with his child. Suffice it to say that we had agreed to maintain the being pregnant non-public earlier than then.
FFK’s Aggressive Behaviour
Whereas I used to be pregnant with the primary youngster and later the triplets, FFK was habitually beating and principally punching my abdomen. Anytime he was indignant and moody, describing my unborn infants as cockroaches or “a factor” that he’ll knock off my stomach. In one among these assaults and kicking on my tummy, my late mother and my sister visited, they usually threw themselves in between us to cease him from additional assaults. In his anger, he hit my mum within the head. After that, FFK ended up accusing my sister of assault and obtained her detained at a police station for coming in-between his punches and me.
At any time when I resist his humiliation and beating, he’ll deploy his bodyguards to wrestle me down. Normally, he referred to as CSP Aisha Yusufu, the then Divisional Police Officer (DPO) of Asokoro Police Station. Who often would come together with her group to harass, handcuff, arrest or lock me behind the counter for hours till Femi was happy that I’ve been punished sufficient. My siblings had been locked up numerous instances as properly. He would all the time boast of his connections to the federal government and the system, saying nothing any member can do.
Throughout one among his home abuse with the DPAisha and her group from Asokoro police station, FFK instructed that they handcuff and strip me Bare. It was achieved within the presence of his home employees, bodyguards and connected VIP cops. They injected me with a wierd substance, and I misplaced consciousness. I wakened in a facility, which they later advised me is a hospital, not figuring out the variety of hours or days I stayed there. My triplets had been six months outdated at the moment.
As I say this, I’m very afraid for my life. He retains threatening me at each flip. I’ve since petitioned the Police however nothing has been achieved but however I am solely trusting God.
The Breakdown of the Marriage
The intervention of members of the family and FFK’S social circle was one maintain again issue that stored me within the relationship for much longer. However how harmful, particularly from Femi’s Psychological Well being challenges. I needed to depart the wedding a long-time in the past however couldn’t as a result of concern issue of FFK. He usually lectured me on the crime of ardour and the way I cannot dwell to inform the story or being checked out by one other man. The concern of Femi dropping it and hurting my kids in retaliation for my leaving didn’t assist issues. Furthermore, the dying of each my dad and mom inside a brief house of time made me extra weak.
The verbal and bodily abuse elevated upon my refusal to have one other set of kids he had instructed and additional used his physician. I deliberate to journey abroad for supply throughout my being pregnant, a choice that made Femi uncomfortable. The physician advised lies that I’ve sure circumstances like placenta previa in my early first trimester and made it unsafe to journey. Different occasions occurred the place bullet shells had been planted in my store, my siblings accused and locked up by SARS, and my passport seized by Femi additionally hindered me from travelling. I concluded that one thing was not including up and determined to go for a second medical opinion. I had no medical situation and was misdiagnosed. FFK deliberate all these incidents to cease me from travelling abroad.
I had a myomectomy on 31st July 2020; FFK disapproved of the physician; after my surgical procedure on the Hospital, he instructed the home employees to not give me meals or drinks. Upon discharge, I arrived house to his normal stage-managed drama. I had no energy to cope with that at that time, so I picked my purse and left with nothing to permit him to relax, contemplating his psychological well being challenges.
He shortly despatched messages by means of buddies to inform me by no means to place a foot in his property, or he would get me locked up for good. It was how he ended the wedding; I left with solely the garments I wore from the Hospital. He by no means allowed me to park my properties or take my kids.
FFK Media Story About My Dad and mom
FFK claims introduced on social media that he took care of my dad and mom for years, obtained my siblings jobs and a residential condominium. The reality is that FFK requested for my mom to be dropped at Abuja to cease me from my frequent travels to the East. He couldn’t get me to pay much less consideration to her as my mother and I used to be inseparable. My mom was already down with most cancers a yr earlier than I met FFK. I had supplied for her wants to assist deal with it however based mostly on her non secular convictions, and my mother refused to do away with her lumps. By the point she obtained to Abuja, her most cancers had unfold.
Not denying that FFK made contributions to her chemotherapy and a few hospital payments, however I funded a lot of the cash from my financial savings. Moreover, FFK was locked up in detention then. On burying my mother, FFK made his contribution, which Rev Okey Onyemachi obtained, my mom’s brother. It was principally cash to are likely to his high-profile visitors and provides them a cushty sitting space. My household catered for the remainder of the burial bills.
My Dad was in Abuja for remedy in late November 2019 and handed on on seventh January 2020. The condominium FFK claimed to have rented on social media was the home I rented in December 2019 earlier than my Dad’s birthday. It was as a result of FFK refused to carry my Dad all the way down to Abuja to take care of him. He claimed that my father’s individuals are accountable for the shortage of monetary circulate, in keeping with his prophets.
Sadly, my Dad solely spent every week in the home I rented for him earlier than he obtained critically unwell on the evening of his birthday. After that evening, my Dad was rushed to a hospital, the place he finally handed on.
Up to now, none of my siblings obtained even a single referral from FFK for something, not to mention a job. As an in-law, FFK contributed 1.5 million Naira to my Dad’s burial and later stated that the cash was a part of my dowry. He grudgingly did it to permit (historically) him to mourn my Dad as an in-law. He had earlier refused to do the rights after our introduction in 2015, after my first son’s start.
Allegations of Dishonest
My years with FFK had been fully shrouded; I walked round with not less than 4 cops and three bodyguards. Mates prevented me even in church as I had a heavy safety presence even throughout choices and thanksgiving. He perceived each schoolmate, ex, cousin, or male voice as a possible lover over the telephone.
I’ve by no means had an extramarital affair as dubiously alleged. Quite the opposite, FFK introduced unusual ladies into our matrimonial house on the slightest alternative.
Claims of Cruelty to My Youngsters
It’s laughable to learn the claims of cruelty from somebody who has by no means raised any of his children bodily since I’ve identified him. How can I be merciless to kids that I took plenty of pains to bear, to make an ungrateful man who complained about having no sons completely satisfied? Each births had been IVF conceived, and I took needles for months earlier than and after. I take my children to high school, church, playgrounds and purchasing and each different factor that might make them completely satisfied as children. I virtually shared my days in his home on my social media pages out of boredom. Individuals who adopted liked my boys’ love, as these reminiscences nonetheless linger on my social media partitions at this time. I like my children, they usually imply all the things to me.
I run an NGO that offers with training for the much less privileged. I began with major and secondary college tasks as miss United Nations. My love for kids has been traceable from time. My accuser is the one who deceived harmless kids with a scholarship scheme that turned out to be a fraud. He supplied scholarships to 3 hundred college students for prime colleges within the Benin Republic by means of my basis in Might 2020.
He didn’t ship One kobo to any scholar or college. To uphold his honour, I went by means of the detailed vetting of one other scholarship scheme in a greater college. FFK deserted these kids and plan after making an empty promise and placing them by means of full admission procedures. Suffice it to say that the college and I nonetheless bear the duty of seeing these children by means of.
I attempted unsuccessfully to see my children even at pure grounds, however Femi made it unimaginable. I refused to return to the home to see them as each nook of the home, Bogs, Toilet, Kitchen, Sitting room, Bed room, the Gate, entrance of the Home jogs my memory of Femi beatings, stripping me bare in presence of his staff, instructing his Physique guards to beat me or utilizing the Police to wrestle me down earlier than placing handcuffs.
These had been the demons I’ve been battling together with ignoring his lies and fabrications.
An Indictment on his not so Clever Particular person
Actually, I’ve simply bared my lifetime of over 20years to the world, however then once more, what can I say? I take full blame for my improper judgment on the selection of FFK based mostly on empathy and naivety. Nevertheless, I can’t assist however marvel if all these frivolous claims of my indecent life-style as portrayed by FFK just isn’t an indictment of his insecure thoughts.
You can’t have a harlot for a spouse and showcase her to the world nearly daily with the most effective captions and poetry to go together with it if she just isn’t a unbelievable soul. Apart from trigger, he hides the demonic atrocities he dedicated whereas making an attempt to look as a superb husband. The FFK I lived with may have the stated movies shared if any infidelity claims are distantly legitimate for ALMOST SEVEN YEARS OF MARRIAGE!
After two heartbreaks, I made one improper choice, believing that an older man will love and make me completely satisfied. All I did was love FFK, battle for him and gave him sons he by no means had. I did all the things for him – I used to be his barber, editor, nurse (earlier than and after he had his presumed COVID 19), chef, image-maker, and stylist with out restrict. Bodily and verbal abuse was what I obtained for all these sacrifices. Lies, all types of inhumane remedy, and now trying to maintain my tender age kids away from their mom.